I arrived in Aberdeen, Scotland, retrieved my luggage, and waited for the person from the college who was supposed to pick me up. I waited and I waited and I waited. It was about an hour later when I realized my mistake. I had misread the time of my arrival in Aberdeen due to Scotland’s use of military or 24-hour time. So, if my ride had come to get me, she had left the airport long ago. I was alone, 16 hours into my travel, and in a foreign country. I was not thinking clearly due to fatigue and unfamiliar with the customs or how to arrange my own transportation. It was the most alone and unwelcome I think I have ever felt. Perhaps you know the feeling. Maybe it was a time you took a wrong turn on a trip and became utterly lost. Maybe it was when you sat for the first time in a new class in a new school and didn’t know a soul. Maybe it was when your mom or your dad or your husband or your wife walked out the door carrying a suitcase and never came back. Maybe it was when you sat in an exam room wondering when the doctor would come back with your test results. Maybe it was when you stood because you couldn’t sit any longer, in a hospital waiting room while someone you loved underwent surgery. Maybe it was when you walked into your house three days after the funeral of your spouse, your family and friends had gone home, and you realized there was no one there to greet you. Or perhaps you are busy all day with children, longing for even one word of adult conversation. Perhaps you check social media a hundred times a day hoping to see something to make you smile but end up feeling more alone despite your thousands of “friends.” Maybe your children are teenagers, and they don’t talk to you much anymore. You don’t seem to get together with other parents anymore either. Or maybe you are a teenager, and you know the other side of that story — everyone else at school seems happy, but you’re not. Bullies used to have to insult you to your face. Now texts and posts flood your account 24 hours a day. You can’t tell mom and dad because they are so busy, and they won’t understand. Yes, loneliness is pervasive in our world today. But before we dwell there too long, we need to hear some good news. ...
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