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Looking Into the Lectionary — Worship resources for 2/27

February 27, 2022
Transfiguration Sunday
Luke 9:28-36

COMMENTARY

“You can tell when someone is really listening to you,” writes Amanda Ripley in High Conflict: Why We Get Trapped and How We Get Out.

As a journalist, Amanda listens to people for a living. So, she felt confident when she sat down with Gary Friedman to learn about “looping,” an active listening technique Gary developed as a conflict mediator.

“I figured I would crush this,” Amanda writes, “I had spent much of my life listening to people tell me stories. I always prepared carefully. I nodded and smiled. I furrowed my brow at all the right moments. I was charming!”

“But that is not listening,” Gary responded. “Proving you’ve heard someone is very different from acting like it. People instantly sense the distinction.”

Looping is a technique where the listener reflects back to the speaker what the person seemed to have said and checks whether their summary is correct. When Amanda tried it with Gary, she realized how different it felt from her normal way of listening. “Looping forced me to … not think about my next question, or when I could get another cup of coffee. It meant letting the other person lead, and I had to follow, which was a little scary.” Checking to see if she’d understood, Amanda was surprised to discover she’d gotten it slightly wrong more often than she would have expected. Then she’d try again and again, listening carefully each time until she got it right.

When Gary and Amanda switched, she experienced what it felt like to really be heard. This technique fundamentally changed how Amanda did her work as a reporter. From then on, she looped people as she interviewed them.

This Sunday’s Transfiguration text from Luke rests between passages that reveal how Jesus was not really heard. In Luke 9:22, Jesus tells his disciples that he will suffer, be rejected, be killed, and on the third day raised from the dead. The disciples hear these words, but they do not understand. Their misunderstanding is revealed when Peter, eager to please, offers to make three dwellings for the three prophets before him on the mountain: one for Jesus, one for Moses, one for Elijah. Peter had in mind Sukkot, the Jewish feast of tabernacles when all Israelites were to dwell in handmade booths like the fragile shelters the Israelites had in exile, to remind them that God delivered them out of the land of Egypt and to look forward to the coming Messiah. But Jesus had just told his disciples that he was the one they were looking forward to, that he was the fulfillment of Israel’s laws and prophecies. The disciples heard the words of Jesus, but they did not understand.

You can find the rest of the commentary on our website.

An order of worship for February 27, 2022. This liturgy is free to use.
The Uniform Lesson for February 27, 2022, by Richard Boyce
Transfiguration of the Lord — Weekly Christian ed lesson by Joelle Brummit-Yale
A Psalm 27 prayer for the people of Ukraine by Teri McDowell Ott

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